Do you ever wonder if you dated the right person but at the wrong time in your life???
I don’t believe in fate. I don’t believe in cushioning your insecurities with a system of belief that tells you ‘Don’t worry. This may be your life but you’re not in control. There is something or someone looking out for you - it’s already organised.’ It’s all chance and choice, which is far more frightening.
Nothing in this world compares to the comfort and security of having someone just hold your hand.
So when people leave, I’ve learned the secret: let them. Because, most of the time, they have to.
Let them walk away and go places. Let them have adventures in the wild without you. Let them travel the world and explore life beyond a horizon that you exist in. And know, deep down, that heroes aren’t qualified by their capacity to stay but by their decision to return.